12 Lifestyle habits to stay happy and healthy

Happy Thursday everyone. Today is a new beginning. Making better habits to stay healthy & happy is great for your mental health. I am not 100% healthy, but i am working towards it even when i slip up time to time. I always practice ways to nourish my mind, body, & soul, so i can…

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Decluttering tips: 30 Items to Get Rid Of Today

Hey FOBEM visitors, Are you trying to figure out “How do I start decluttering?” or “How do you get rid of clutter at home?”. Don’t worry, I have written 30 things you can throw away today so you can start to declutter right away or when you have time! If the items you are throwing away are…

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“Will I be single forever?” And other chit chat about relationships

First off, if you always ask your self this question, just know you aren’t alone. I spent a lot of time out my days/weeks wondering will I ever get back in a relationship. I’m sure you’ve been on countless dates and still feel no connection with the person you meet. At least I know I…

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Back from my mental break

Hello 😊. So guess what? 👏🏾 I’m back, and I’m better. This has been the most stressful, depressing, and confusing year. From going through this pandemic, family death, not employed, slow running business, relationship issues, money issues, and I can go on and on. So I decided to take a break for a while to…

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20 Things to do during quarantine

Living during a pandemic, Is definitely terrifying. We are going through a horrific time. During this pandemic it kind of remind me of the movies we watch or the theory stories people talk about. Now we find ourselves stuck in the house due to a state of emergency. Which means we are stuck on quarantine…

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Three techniques to slay your Anxiety

I suffered from anxiety for years, starting at the age of 18. The Panic attacks and anxiety started at the age of 22, and it definitely took over my life and I found myself avoiding any situation I thought could induce my anxiety.  The thing with anxiety the more you ignore it, the more it…

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What’s going on with me? How To Feel Better When You Don’t Know Why You’re Sad

Honestly, I know a lot of people are guilty of this just as much as i am. Have you ever just start randomly feeling sad? Well this weekend i definitely witnessed it. I felt sad for no reason and I couldn’t help but wonder “what’s wrong with me?”. This problem can be confusing for a lot…

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30 Things You Can Do Instead of Scrolling on Social Media

I try to have days where i let go of social media to do something for myself, and actually have me time. At first i can admit it was kind of hard because social media can be addictive, but eventually i was able to just go for it. Focusing on self-care is definitely important, especially…

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13 steps to protect your vibe

No matter what i go through i try my best to protect my vibe. I have gotten out of character so many times, and allowed so many people to get me that way as well. Spiritually & mentally, I have gotten far not reacting to certain things in a way i shouldn’t have. I still…

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Prep talk on letting go shame

    Hello SP Fam! I’ve been going through a process lately of letting go of shame. I know i’m sure most can relate to this. It’s been very hard, but deeply healing no matter what steps i have to take. For a while now, I kept parts of my past life hidden & always…

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3 Ways to finish the year strong

We’re coming to the end of the year which is a really hard time for me to stay motivated i can admit. It’s easy to just say “forget it” and throw away all my routines and daily practices out the window. I tell myself I’ll start over in January and before I know it it’s…

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50 things that make me happy

    There’s no big secret or surprise that my life have been tough. As you see i blog about mental health a lot, because i go through it myself. The past few years i have been fighting it. So it’s up and down, but i have gotten so much better with coping with it.…

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