Decluttering tips: 30 Items to Get Rid Of Today

Hey FOBEM visitors, Are you trying to figure out “How do I start decluttering?” or “How do you get rid of clutter at home?”. Don’t worry, I have written 30 things you can throw away today so you can start to declutter right away or when you have time! If the items you are throwing away are…

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Back from my mental break

Hello 😊. So guess what? 👏🏾 I’m back, and I’m better. This has been the most stressful, depressing, and confusing year. From going through this pandemic, family death, not employed, slow running business, relationship issues, money issues, and I can go on and on. So I decided to take a break for a while to…

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Let’s talk Black lives matter and coping with traumatic racism

I would say since these past couple months, but it actually been decades since my black people haven’t been treated fairly. But, we lost another black man name George Floyd and now we are beginning to fight harder for our rights because we are beyond tired!! My name is Seqouia Battle the creator of bubblegumplease, and i…

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Coronavirus crisis meets Anxiety: How to cope?

I am most definitely not going to lie, the Coronavirus has been raising my anxiety levels the last few days. But hey, theirs nothing we can do to control it, but we can definitely help from spreading it. I won’t all my readers and everyone else out there to be safe and please take all…

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Three techniques to slay your Anxiety

I suffered from anxiety for years, starting at the age of 18. The Panic attacks and anxiety started at the age of 22, and it definitely took over my life and I found myself avoiding any situation I thought could induce my anxiety.  The thing with anxiety the more you ignore it, the more it…

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30 Things You Can Do Instead of Scrolling on Social Media

I try to have days where i let go of social media to do something for myself, and actually have me time. At first i can admit it was kind of hard because social media can be addictive, but eventually i was able to just go for it. Focusing on self-care is definitely important, especially…

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3 Ways to finish the year strong

We’re coming to the end of the year which is a really hard time for me to stay motivated i can admit. It’s easy to just say “forget it” and throw away all my routines and daily practices out the window. I tell myself I’ll start over in January and before I know it it’s…

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How I Got Through a Bad Month

Hello, I’m so relief that i am feeling like myself again after a pretty rough time  these past couple months. I can’t tell you how thankful I am to feel productive and inspired again. I’m not 100% the happiest but I definitely feel more like myself again. I will be hosting my podcast on here…

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Do not become fear of your depression

So as you know i am a fighter of depression. And to be all the way honest 2019 has been a pain in the ass. I’m sure it been that way for many others as well. And as authentic as i am, I always told myself i will continue to live in my truth. I…

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Self-Care Ideas for when you are having a bad day

Self-care will and always will be one of my favorite topics. Taking care of yourself mentally & physically is so important. Sometimes we skip over making our selves complete. So many of us forget about caring for ourselves and that is okay and can easily be changed. We just have to choose our well-being first,…

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Life Update: Took a break from blogging. Now i’m back.

So guess what? I decided to start doing life updates, just to keep you posted with me. I did say before i wanted to start finding new ways to connect with my audience, now i came up with the best solution. So let this be a new start. Life update part 1. What’s up “Sp fam”…

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How to Overcome Your Fear of Self-Promotion

I know it can’t possibly be just me who went through this fear of self-promotion. Do you ever get that nervous feeling to share links in your blog or own your social media accounts? Do you hesitate to promote your own work you spent long nights & hours gathering together? Do you feel when you…

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